Talking Frankly is about everything from housework to human rights. It is a mixture of observation, commentary and opinions.
It also contains a lot of profanity along with the humanity. And please don’t steal my work. Somebody invariably dobs you in and it gets messy.
Enjoy!
This body of mine
Fact: This body of mine is overweight. It is overweight because at this current point in time I don't exercise enough, drink too much and eat erratically. I think way too much about this body of mine. The marketing tells me that I don't think about it enough.This body...
I lost an earring at a Katy Perry concert and other tales about perspective
I often comment that some people are born to be an inspiration, and others, a lesson.I definitely fall into the lesson category.I don't think that I do any more daft stuff than anybody else, it's just that I tend to do it all at once and then tell everybody about...
Those other mothers (World Refugee Day)
The fact that it’s World Refugee Day and the US has pulled out of the UN Humans Rights Council is abominable.The fact that when Australia ratified the UN’s anti-torture protocol last year they specifically excluded our off-shore detention centres is abominable.The...
It is called Depression
*Trigger warning - suicide, suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety* My feed last week was full of people talking about Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain’s deaths by suicide and encouraging people who are feeling suicidal or have suicidal ideation to reach out. To...
Feeling uncomfortable? Me Too.
In a conversation recently, a friend said that she was finding the whole #metoo thing a very discomfiting experience. She noted that every time somebody spoke out, spoke publicly about the abuse they had experienced, or outed one of her celebrity crushes – she felt...
Dear Celebrity
I see you in the magazines and on the internet and on posters and in movies and basically everywhere and I know that I don't know you at all even when I feel like I do.I know that being famous doesn't mean you're rich, and that being rich doesn't mean you are...
Dear Parents of Teens
Dear Parent of Teens,A quick historical recap to start. As you know, teenagers were only invented in the post depression era, coming into their own post-WWII and were of course, they were American to start with. The evolution of the teenager as we know them...
Not everyone is a prick
I'd like to start with the good news. The world is more full of Yassmin Abdel-Magieds, Behrouz Boochanis and Magda Szubanskis than it is the spineless jerks that troll them.It's just that sometimes hate is spewed at us in so many different ways, from the mouths...
Short hair. Yeah. Nah. Yeah
My seven year old daughter got her hair cut short on Friday afternoon. She's now rocking a super schmick pixie cut. She looks amazing.It wasn't something we suggested. She'd been thinking about it for a while before she asked to do it. She chose a style she'd seen on...
The end of a generation
Death is a mysterious beast in the western world. We don't like to think about it, plan for it, and by no means can we be honest with our children about it.But the fact is, death is a fact of life. We don't know whether we are going to live until we are 101 or die...
Social media and adults: time to dial it down
Maggie Dent the author shared an article last month by a Dr Meeker titled “Social Media and Teens: Time to Dial it Down.” Now I need to state up front that unlike Dr Meeker I am not a paediatrician and unlike Maggie Dent I’m not an authority on children. Also unlike...
Me, Steven Bradbury, Giselle Bundchen and parenting
A friend asked me recently what I thought of THIS article. Now I want you to be very clear that she only asked me because I am an EXCELLENT parent and never make mistakes. I am such an excellent parent that my kids don't drink juice because that shit has sugar...